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00:08:27 Sarah Moretti: Hi All! I’m at work and I’ve got my laptop docked so I won’t have video today and I’m primarily going to listen as this is my first coaching call.
00:16:47 Emily Rose Prats: i am going through this exact shift right now, michelle. it’s a confusing and scary place to go from that scarcity mindset to allowing yourself to say no to things and explore. i relate and am happy to talk further if you ever want to ❤️
00:17:41 Alexandra Hampton: I can relate to that! I felt the same during my last year of grad school – the most balanced and stimulated. it’s hard to find that IRL and i’m going through how to find my path too!
00:23:33 Ada Chen: It me!!
00:24:10 Alexandra Hampton: Sounds like that’s where your passion lies! In the book! how can you create purpose around that and use your other work to support yourself in getting to that goal?
00:25:54 Emily Rose Prats: but also goals don’t have to be career-oriented. are there personal or interpersonal things you want to work on that might unintentionally lead you to more fulfilling professional places?
00:32:41 Emily Rose Prats: we talked about this
00:32:43 Emily Rose Prats: yes
00:34:51 Alexandra Hampton: reading last winter really helped me readjust around my sense of attachment to “doing”
00:35:26 Alexandra Hampton: i really started to see how i was placing my “value” on how “productive” i am and this is something that is internal work to shift – i can recommend some books!
00:40:38 Alexandra Hampton: do you HAVE to meet? or can you be unavailable? is this a conversation that has to happen in person?
00:41:05 Ada Chen: can you make it a more informal setting? Like a walk or coffee?
00:41:14 Alexandra Hampton: oh i like that idea
00:42:20 Ada Chen: *hug*
00:48:04 Ada Chen: I have to run to a work meeting – but sending you lots of love, Kelly! Will watch the recording later.
00:56:11 Emily Rose Prats: i’m with you, kelly—the anxiety takes over and i wish i could be like people who don’t care
00:56:23 Sarah Moretti: I’m off to a work meeting as well. Thanks Michelle and Kelly for letting me hear your current stories being coached. See you all next time. Make it a great day!
00:56:34 Emily Rose Prats: lately i’ve started saying “well, this is how i am, so i have to let go of the wishing”
00:57:11 Jill: My husband has that same mindset, I think its guy thing. He, too, cannot understand my sensitivity in these situations.
00:59:01 Emily Rose Prats: is there anything you can get out of the meeting?
00:59:36 Jill: are you looking for me to talk or type?
01:00:28 Jill: I’m not sure what your plans are but to me it sounds like you don’t have a lot to lose. Are you positive you will leave after the baby is born are are you planning to come back after the baby is born if you don’t have another job?
01:01:31 Alexandra Hampton: hugs to all – i have to run!
01:02:15 Jill: I would keep it very neutral and say that youre very focused on finishing up your to do list in the next 6 weeks so you can leave them in a good place before your maternity leave
01:02:59 Jill: that makes sense
01:03:21 Jill: stop there
01:03:29 Jill: you don’t owe them anything else
01:03:45 Jill: keep it very focused
01:03:58 Jill: it’s the holidays, you have 6 weeks left and a lot to do and that’s your focused
01:20:39 Emily Rose Prats: that’s bs
01:25:17 Emily Rose Prats: good luck, kelly!
01:25:33 Kelly Berndt: thank you all so much <3
01:28:21 Emily Rose Prats: i love revenue